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Josie-lufc
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MeJust thought I would post a piccy of me. It gives you a full piccy of my facial deformity.
This is what a lot of people laugh at and why I have so little self confidence.
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silver fox
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aww why you dowing this to your self , there nothing wrong with you , its whats in y heart that counts jo , most men awt there would love to be seen with you  i wish you would not keep put yur self down ok xxxx
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Chrissy Canadian
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jo, i say this in all honestly... yes, i can see that you have a small deformity on your upper lip, but there is no way in hell that i would ever think that you were not a beautiful woman, i mean that with all my heart. i don't know who in their right minds would ever laugh at you... all i can say is that they just dont know you... and they are not worth more than a speck of dirt if they made you feel sad... people are people.. we all have something that we don't feel good about, some have more of a visible mark than others.... people who belittle other people are just insecure themselves. take heart darling... you have us
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Josie-lufc
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Im not putting myself down Alan, I know I have put a few posts on this forum about how I feel about my looks. Then I found this photo and thought it does show my facial deformity up, so at least people know at least what I am talking about.
Walking around looking like that is not easy.
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Chrissy Canadian
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i know that for me, self confidence comes with age and i honestly think that if you feel within yourself that you're beautiful and you believe it then others will see that too (and if people dont see it **** them anyway).... i have suffered for years from really low self esteem... came from years of living with my father and him saying that i was basically nothing, i was a really shy person most of my life... you have to love yourself for what you are... it's hard, and i know it sounds cliche, but i think time is the best healer.
josie, you've got lots of gorgeous features.. just play them up.... you're gorgeous body, you're hair, etc... that's the way to feel good about yourself
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Josie-lufc
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Thanks Chrissy, you are a real friend. I think you are a really pretty and wonderful person too and feel very priviledged to know you.
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Chrissy Canadian
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| Josie-lufc wrote: | | Thanks Chrissy, you are a real friend. I think you are a really pretty and wonderful person too and feel very priviledged to know you. |
i feel the same way about you josie.... i am so happy to know somebody as wonderful as you and have you as my friend. i learn a lot from you.
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Josie-lufc
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Big HUGS to you Chrissy
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Baldrick
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Jo, do stop putting yourself down. Yes, you've got a slight disfigurement but so what? It's not whats on the outside that counts...but what's on the inside. Now buck up and stop feeling sorry for yourself...or Uncle Baldrick will come and slap yer bum!!
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Her Ladyship
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Josie you are a beautiful woman.
If people can't see beyond a small deformity then that is their problem and are not worth a second thought.
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lil eva
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Exactly what i have been telling her for i don't know how long 
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Serenity
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Well looking at the picture you can hardly see anything Jo!!! No more than you can see my wrinkles and off centred teeth in MY photos lol!
I don't think your looks are anything to be down about, it's what Chrissy said, it's just low self esteem. I, like Chrissy, was put down by my father constantly when he was alive. I'm almost 6 foot tall, I have skinny legs, when I had shorter hair, he used to say I looked like a bloke, and was always taking the piss outta me. Plus at school being tall and lanky I got the usual onslaught of names, lamppost, olive oil etc etc. Often through the years, even at times now, you will hear me taking the piss outta myself, before others do. Thing is, they don't do it now, its just me hanging onto it. Let it go hunni, stick your head up, push out those gorgeous bangers, and say sod ya to all the shallow twats in this world. Normally you will find, they only say nasty things to other people, to make themself feel better about their own faults .
Power to ya Jo xxxxxx
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lil eva
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bloody well said Debs
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GenieDi
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Very well put Debs.
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Josie-lufc
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| Serenity wrote: | Well looking at the picture you can hardly see anything Jo!!! No more than you can see my wrinkles and off centred teeth in MY photos lol!
I don't think your looks are anything to be down about, it's what Chrissy said, it's just low self esteem. I, like Chrissy, was put down by my father constantly when he was alive. I'm almost 6 foot tall, I have skinny legs, when I had shorter hair, he used to say I looked like a bloke, and was always taking the piss outta me. Plus at school being tall and lanky I got the usual onslaught of names, lamppost, olive oil etc etc. Often through the years, even at times now, you will hear me taking the piss outta myself, before others do. Thing is, they don't do it now, its just me hanging onto it. Let it go hunni, stick your head up, push out those gorgeous bangers, and say sod ya to all the shallow twats in this world. Normally you will find, they only say nasty things to other people, to make themself feel better about their own faults .
Power to ya Jo xxxxxx |
Thanks Debs, you made my day
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Bravo
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Nobody could ever look bad in a Leeds shirt
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Josie-lufc
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Have to agree with you there Bravo
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